A Thanksgiving Message for Your Healing Journey
- John Hayes Jr, MD
- 4 days ago
- 2 min read

Thanksgiving is often filled with family, food, and familiar traditions. But for many people living with pain, fatigue, or chronic symptoms, the holidays can bring a mix of emotions—joy, yes, but also exhaustion, worry, or the pressure to “feel great” when your body is working hard behind the scenes.
So this Thanksgiving, I want to offer you something simple and real:
Gratitude that doesn’t ignore your challenges—but honors your strength.
Healing takes courage. And you’ve shown that courage every single day, even on the days when it didn’t feel like it.
Gratitude for Your Body’s Quiet Work
Even if this year has had hard moments, your body has been fighting for you nonstop:
Your heart kept beating through the tough days.
Your lungs kept breathing through the stress.
Your nerves have continued trying to repair, even when progress felt slow.
Your mind has kept showing up, learning, adapting, and hoping.
You don’t need a perfect body to be grateful—you only need to notice the effort it’s making to heal.
Gratitude for the Small, Steady Wins
Healing is made of tiny victories you might overlook:
A night of better sleep
A morning with less stiffness
A day with fewer flare-ups
A moment of laughter
A walk that felt easier than last week
These little changes matter.They add up.They’re proof that your body is still listening, still responding, still capable of change.
Gratitude for the People in Your Corner
Whether it’s family, friends, or your healthcare team—you’re not doing this alone.
Every person who checks in on you, encourages you, or reminds you to take care of yourself is part of your healing. Let yourself receive that support. You deserve it.
A Thanksgiving Wish for You
This Thanksgiving, my wish for you is simple:
May you experience moments of comfort.May you feel proud of how far you’ve come.May your body find calm, rest, and healing.And may you notice even one thing—big or small—that fills your heart with gratitude.
Your healing journey continues, and you’re doing better than you think.I’m grateful to be a part of it.
